Arrange marriage is an Art

Finally After lots of hide and seek with myself, I am going to write my feelings, thoughts on arrange marriage.
I have grown up with a belief that there is someone special made for every one. And I seriously wonder where she will be at this moment, what is she doing right now. I fall in love , though I have not seen her. I truly believe in an adage “love is blind”, but I have added some more words to it. “love is not only blind, but also deaf and dumb”
Sometimes I think, since god has made someone for everyone, how would I recognize her, will there be some sign, I mean some bells will ring in my ear, or some signals will be received in my brain (I cant escape from my techie lines). Will those feeling will be mutual. Will there be love at first sight? I felt excited by scratching my head and rubbing my brains on this topic.
D-day came when I said yes to my parents that they can start looking for a gal. Suddenly All those above excitements/feelings took a back seat or I would say vanished for a moment. I wanted to run from the question “what kind of gal I want”, but could not escape it for long. Though I have thought it in some broader lines, but now its high time to narrow it and reach out to every word.
I realized how would I decide in 1 hour or a day that she is the one. My belief in destiny caught in heavy fog. My excitement converted to fear. Fear in the sense, will I be able to choose the right gal, will she be able to choose the right boy, will she be able to make my home, will she be able to spread the love, will she be able to reciprocate my feelings. Damn!!! This is so tough, tougher than any examination.
With time, I realized so many process attached to arrange marriage. I wonder how would girl parents know that I am the right guy for their daughter in few moments of talk. Then return the destiny factor again. I realized, Man, this is luck, this is bluff.
I don’t want ’my’ gal to do any sort of compromises on pressure from her parents. I find it tough to think how would I say NO to a gal, how would I react when same happens to me. Suddenly, two voices comes from within me, dude, that’s a signal, just digest it optimistically, may be that’s not a perfect match, the other one say’s dude, you may get biased after this. And I don’t know whom to respect. Seriously wonder sometimes, I wish I could see my gal in my dreams.
My aim is not to scare anyone but just to know myself better after writing it.
All kind of misunderstandings can happen while anyone is involved in arrange marriage process. Since every sort of talk/communication from boy to girl or girl to boy travels long route. The key is to avoid it at first place or clear it by taking short route. Seriously I call arrange marriage an art and I wish everyone masters this art and get the right partner destined for him/her.