forgiveness

There was a story I heard and which basically tells you that if you cant forgive someone you will carry that weight in your mind till the end of your life. It will pain you when you remember those moments/events/days. An adage "time is the best medicine". With time everything heals up, unless you keep scratching it. In another story, i read that if you can't forgive, you just stay there and can't move on in life.

Life is a vicious cycle, it throws back everything you did, as said the good and bad things. You really can’t fully understand the feelings of other person, unless you face the similar situation, though how hard you try to imagine. Be it losing a job, losing an interview, losing your near-dear ones, relationships and the list continues.

So I started with topic forgiveness, change my route to give and take. You might be wondering what’s the connection?
Yes, there is a link, if you can forgive someone, I bet my life, you'll feel alleviated, and that weight on your little head will gradually disappear. But yes someone should not be that generous Gandhiji, if someone slaps on your one face, you show the way to other part of your face. Incorrigible mistakes can't be forgiven.

May be unintentionally, sometimes we hurt someone and doesn't realize that time unless you travels to other end to realize the pain. So that time, you realize you'd also done those unintentional mistakes in your life, so why do you have grudges, forgive and live the life.

As rightfully said:
You should add life to age, not age to life :)